祝你幸福

Time really flies. It’s been more than 10 years since we have made this promise to each other. I am sorry that I am unable to attend your customary, and thus unable to fulfill my promise to be your bridesmaid when you get married. Those were the days when we have so much 憧憬 for love. However, the more we have, the more we get hurt. I’m so happy for you that you have found the person whom you know you can depend, take care for life. Here’s a toast to you my friend!

她自信从不认输
爱就要爱得刻骨
岂止是要朝朝睦睦
为了爱义无反顾
跌倒了也不会哭
相信终会找到对路

她深信星座占卜
也会向神灵救助
只为将爱紧紧握住
对爱坚持的态度
不得不让我佩服
但也为她感到辛苦

经过了千辛万苦
多少次的遇人不淑
她终于找到了她要的幸福
5月30日踏进了爱情坟墓
其实这只是一个开始　而不是结束
无名指上的承诺　是如此的坚固
我要大声欢呼：
朋友祝你幸福！

Still rem when we were 16, you faced your her 1st ever heartbreak. Broke up with her 1st love. To encourage her, I penned this below for her den:

他曾说的话　我想你都会背
但他的誓言不知已往那飞
听说他身边　已经有个人陪
你又何苦让自己显得如此狼狈

我说忘了他吧　放弃他吧
何必虚年华
但你却说你没有精彩（进才*）的生活你活不下
他嘴里的情话　他爱你吗
原来全都是假　
看着你努力的挣扎
这爱的代价
你说这一切都是为他

*The guy's name

(Think it seems quite apt for my another good friend manz)

I wish all my friends 幸福. For those with partners, buck up and tie the knot soon manz (yesh L3, I am referring to you! Hope you will be singing your current fav song to us soon!). Those w/o, stop thinking of saving $ for spinsterhood! Be positive and I'm sure God will lead the way to Mr Right!

但愿人长久 千里共婵娟

It is just a click away to do our part to help our less fortunate neighbours who have lost their homes and families overnight. I know my blog does not have any avid readers. But if you do chance upon here, please take a step back and think of how fortunate we are, and consider making a donation*. Any amount, big or small, will definitely help.

Here are some ways which we can help:

UOB IB

Singapore Red Cross China Earthquake and Myanmar Cyclone Funds You can now make donations to the Singapore Red Cross China Earthquake and/or Myanmar Cyclone Funds using our "Bill Payment" service. Both relief funds have been listed separately under "Payee Corporation". For the Bill Reference Number, you may indicate your telephone number.


DBS/POSB IB

DBS Facilitates Public Donation for the Victims of China Sichuan Earthquake and Myanmar Cyclone NargisDBS and POSB customers can contribute to the "Red Cross China Earthquake" fund and/or "Red Cross Myanmar Cyclone" fund conveniently at any of the 900 DBS/POSB ATMs, 490 AXS stations and via DBS iBanking at https://internet-banking.dbs.com.sg/. Both funds have been included as billing organisations under the Bill Payment service and any customer wishing to make a contribution to the funds can do so by debiting their DBS or POSB account.Please follow the step-by-step guide below to make a contribution to the respective fund.

Step-by-step guide for donations to "Red Cross China Earthquake" fund

DBS iBanking
1. Login to DBS iBanking
2. Click on "Payment Services"
3. Click on "Bill Payment"
4. Select "Red Cross China Earthquake" from the billing corporation list
5. Select the deposit account to debit donation
6. Enter telephone number as the Consumer Reference Number
7. Enter the donation amount

Step-by-step guide for donations to "Red Cross Myanmar Cyclone" fund

DBS iBanking
1. Login to DBS iBanking
2. Click on "Payment Services"
3. Click on "Bill Payment"
4. Select "Red Cross Myanmar Cyclone" from the billing corporation list
5. Select the deposit account to debit donation
6. Enter telephone number as the Consumer Reference Number
7. Enter the donation amount

施比受更有福。让我们不分彼此, 将大爱传出去！

*This is just an appeal; there is no obligation to make a donation.

A special dedication for you

My dear fren seems pretty disturbed lately. Think it had been lingering for months. Though I am not sure what exactly happened but I still wish her all the best in getting over the shit herself. I truly believe we can only attain happiness by ourselves.

Anyway, think she had been feeling weak. Blaming herself for letting her emotions get the better of her. I would like to take this opportunity (while I am at work coz I nv seem to fulfill much when I am at home, been viwawa-ing) to dedicate this song especially for her. I feel that sometimes we try so hard to suppress our emotions and ended getting ourselves more miserable. Check out the chorus part ok? Can’t seem to link youtube over now leh. So bo bian, I just cut and paste the lyrics. Check out the song here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9FaMG9B7weE

范玮琪 可不可以不勇敢

你用浓浓的鼻音说一点也没事

反正又美又痛才是爱的本质

一个人旅行也许更有意思

和他真正结束才能重新开始

几年贴心的日子换分手两个字

你却严格只准自己哭一下子

看着你努力想微笑的样子

我的心像大雨将至那么潮湿

我们可不可以不勇敢?

当伤太重心太酸无力承担

就算现在女人很流行释然

好像什么困境都知道该怎么办

我们可不可以不勇敢?

当爱太累梦太乱没有答案

难道不能坦白的放声哭喊?

要从心底拿走一个人很痛很难

My dear fren: it is ok to dwell into it. We all have been through such periods before. But you must know when to stand up right and lead life again. The earth will not stop evolving ard the sun when we are down. Life still goes on. C’est La Vie. Jia you!!