败犬女王

Currently watching this show. totally can relate to the show. Think this is one of the better scripted 台湾偶像剧. Just wana share some of the classic lines, dedicated to all the败犬们s & prospective 败犬们s:

这世界上有3样事是不能掩饰的

1：打喷涕；2：爱情；3：贫穷

结婚不是绑住幸福的工具。

结婚不是结局，而是挑战的开始。

结婚证书只能证明你有个伴侣，

但不能保证你下半辈子可以幸福。

I Hope Your Love is alwiz Happy

Seriously, I am suffering from thr aftermath of their break-up. You may think it is all set-up variety program. But to me, the feelings are real. There are just somethings in life which you cant fake it.

It's a great pity that he left WGM to film the korean Boys Over Flowers aka Meteor Garden. No doubt, the drama has open his horizon to asia instead of just Korea. I would still prefer him to stay as the shin lang of Hwang Bo.

Missing him as the oxygen of Buin... missing his 4D thinkings... FIGHTING!!

暧昧

I was never the kinda person who like to 搞暧昧. Someone recently told me that 暧昧 is the most beautiful part of any relationship. I do agree in some ways but I come to realize there are 2 kinds of 暧昧.
1. When a man and woman are still at the 友达以上　恋人未满 stage. That kinda of 暧昧让人又爱又恨but… I like and enjoy.　心会整颗揪起来。莫名的心动、心悸。嘴角会无故的上扬。这是暧昧…

眉目里似哭不似哭　
还祈求什麽说不出
陪著你轻呼著烟圈　
到唇边～讲不出满足
你的温柔怎可以捕捉　
越来越近　却从不接触　
La～～
茶没有喝光早变酸　
从来没热恋已相恋
陪著你天天在兜圈　
那缠绕　怎麽可算短
你的衣裳今天我在穿
未留住你　却仍然温暖
徘徊在似苦又甜之间　
望不穿这暧昧的眼
爱或情借来填一晚　
终须都归还　没谓多贪
犹疑在似即若离之间　
望不穿这暧昧的眼
似是浓　却仍然很淡　
天早灰蓝 想告别　偏未晚

2. When a couple broke off, one is still holding on or leading the other party. This kinda of 暧昧也让人又爱又恨but I dun like. 心像是悬在悬崖边。在狠狠推它下去时僅剩的爱. 这是暧昧…

暧昧让人受尽委屈
找不到相爱的证据
何时该前进　何时该放弃
连拥抱都没有勇气
只能陪你到这里
毕竟有些事不可以
超过了友情　还不到爱情
远方就要下雨的风景
到底该不该哭泣
想太多是我还是你
我很不服气　
也开始怀疑
眼前的人　是不是同一个真实的你
暧昧让人受尽委屈
找不到相爱的证据
何时该前进　何时该放弃
连拥抱都没有勇气
暧昧让人变得贪心
直到等待失去意义
无奈我和你　
写不出结局
放遗憾的美丽　停在这里

L.O.V.E.

The course of true love never did run smooth.

It will usually take a lot of ups and down before one can ascertain that she has found ‘the one’. Quarrels, arguments, break-ups, tears, sense of lost… we all have been through them. Without them, relationships will never be called relationships. That’s the queer thing about LOVE.

You cannot quantify it, who loves more, who is giving more
You cannot maintain it status quo forever, who used to love more and changed
You cannot underestimate its power, LOVE encompass all emotions
You cannot live it (who can?)

You may wonder why I am writing this. This entry is especially dedicated to my 2 dearest friends: one who has found love and one who is entering the graveyard of love (爱情的坟墓). Rem: the course of true love never did run smooth. This is just a beginning of a new chapter of your life. I am glad that I can participate as a 路人甲in this chapter. As much as you love your significant others, remember that I love you 2 too! 加油!

I am back

I know I haven been blogging for coming to 4mths, i.e. > a quarter of a year. Anyway, of coz I dun expect any avid readers to be following my blog religiously for me to fulfill my social responsibility. Even Princess Nana who have to bypass my blog to view rosie’s blog is asking me to ask rosie to update her blog. No mentions on my blog at all! Sigh… nmind it doesn’t really matter to me anyway. Coz my life is just too un-exciting to be blogged about.

Lemme see…
June: forgotten what happened in June for me liao… my memory is just too short. Think that mth was one of the worst I had in UOB. I worked 15 out of possible 20 days of OT, of which 13 days are till after 11pm. Terrible month and I am like what my dear fren will call a che meh hor sin (blinded fly) flying and hitting everywhere and getting herself hurt. My hair started to turn bad. Definition of bad: oily + itch scalps + dandruffs. Read nu ren wo zui da mag and tried many kinds of shampoo. Yet to find one that can truly cure my hair. Any remedy? Read from my ever faithful flowerpod that using mouthwash to wash hair is good for oily scalp. Dun dare to try that yet…

July: what happened again in July ah? Erm… cant recall. Yah… officially took over the portfolio of $550m. fierce target and unattainable! I am working away from it everyday now. Since July, it had been my dream to marry some Arab oil magnate so that I can throw $550m (Jean says she can contribute $1) to my dear boss and say goodbye to him. However, after reading that Mr David Beckham earns $80m last yr, I have realized that this $550m is damned tough. Beckham will take 7 yrs to earn that! Change of plan: marry a local bah kwa king (coz Arabs are Halal and I love Bah Kwa) and live my life flipping Bah Kwa everyday! $5.5m is good enough for me!

August: my birthday month! No celebration though but had a great time with my dear laoz. Though its more of a national day celebration, but thanks for the cake! L5 did a wonderful job in preparing the food and the flags!! Pls involve us next round ok!

Comex… the 1st event to call my own. My baby! and it almost died. Created a damned fucking big mess and took me days to clear them even till now. like what I have told Simon, I know I can do better, I will do better; I must do better; I want to do better! Hope it wun affect my appraisal which is coming soon. Toking abt appraisal, think this is a big big thing in UOB. It had nv cross my mind in anything I am doing now that I can include in my appraisal. But my dear colleagues had tot abt it and is kind enough to share with me what I can put in. Jo told me to tell Simon that I will take care of Comex so that I can have things to write in my appraisal! Thanks ger! But… hahaha appraisal seems far for me. Esp when I screwed things up! Jia you Jia you!!

Ok, time to go home now. it is 10.10pm now. stayed till 10pm so that I can claim cab back. Gota bring back 3 boxes of mooncakes home coz gota give them to merchants tomorrow. I’m the courier ger for mooncakes in Sep.

祝你幸福

Time really flies. It’s been more than 10 years since we have made this promise to each other. I am sorry that I am unable to attend your customary, and thus unable to fulfill my promise to be your bridesmaid when you get married. Those were the days when we have so much 憧憬 for love. However, the more we have, the more we get hurt. I’m so happy for you that you have found the person whom you know you can depend, take care for life. Here’s a toast to you my friend!

她自信从不认输
爱就要爱得刻骨
岂止是要朝朝睦睦
为了爱义无反顾
跌倒了也不会哭
相信终会找到对路

她深信星座占卜
也会向神灵救助
只为将爱紧紧握住
对爱坚持的态度
不得不让我佩服
但也为她感到辛苦

经过了千辛万苦
多少次的遇人不淑
她终于找到了她要的幸福
5月30日踏进了爱情坟墓
其实这只是一个开始　而不是结束
无名指上的承诺　是如此的坚固
我要大声欢呼：
朋友祝你幸福！

Still rem when we were 16, you faced your her 1st ever heartbreak. Broke up with her 1st love. To encourage her, I penned this below for her den:

他曾说的话　我想你都会背
但他的誓言不知已往那飞
听说他身边　已经有个人陪
你又何苦让自己显得如此狼狈

我说忘了他吧　放弃他吧
何必虚年华
但你却说你没有精彩（进才*）的生活你活不下
他嘴里的情话　他爱你吗
原来全都是假　
看着你努力的挣扎
这爱的代价
你说这一切都是为他

*The guy's name

(Think it seems quite apt for my another good friend manz)

I wish all my friends 幸福. For those with partners, buck up and tie the knot soon manz (yesh L3, I am referring to you! Hope you will be singing your current fav song to us soon!). Those w/o, stop thinking of saving $ for spinsterhood! Be positive and I'm sure God will lead the way to Mr Right!

但愿人长久 千里共婵娟

It is just a click away to do our part to help our less fortunate neighbours who have lost their homes and families overnight. I know my blog does not have any avid readers. But if you do chance upon here, please take a step back and think of how fortunate we are, and consider making a donation*. Any amount, big or small, will definitely help.

Here are some ways which we can help:

UOB IB

Singapore Red Cross China Earthquake and Myanmar Cyclone Funds You can now make donations to the Singapore Red Cross China Earthquake and/or Myanmar Cyclone Funds using our "Bill Payment" service. Both relief funds have been listed separately under "Payee Corporation". For the Bill Reference Number, you may indicate your telephone number.


DBS/POSB IB

DBS Facilitates Public Donation for the Victims of China Sichuan Earthquake and Myanmar Cyclone NargisDBS and POSB customers can contribute to the "Red Cross China Earthquake" fund and/or "Red Cross Myanmar Cyclone" fund conveniently at any of the 900 DBS/POSB ATMs, 490 AXS stations and via DBS iBanking at https://internet-banking.dbs.com.sg/. Both funds have been included as billing organisations under the Bill Payment service and any customer wishing to make a contribution to the funds can do so by debiting their DBS or POSB account.Please follow the step-by-step guide below to make a contribution to the respective fund.

Step-by-step guide for donations to "Red Cross China Earthquake" fund

DBS iBanking
1. Login to DBS iBanking
2. Click on "Payment Services"
3. Click on "Bill Payment"
4. Select "Red Cross China Earthquake" from the billing corporation list
5. Select the deposit account to debit donation
6. Enter telephone number as the Consumer Reference Number
7. Enter the donation amount

Step-by-step guide for donations to "Red Cross Myanmar Cyclone" fund

DBS iBanking
1. Login to DBS iBanking
2. Click on "Payment Services"
3. Click on "Bill Payment"
4. Select "Red Cross Myanmar Cyclone" from the billing corporation list
5. Select the deposit account to debit donation
6. Enter telephone number as the Consumer Reference Number
7. Enter the donation amount

施比受更有福。让我们不分彼此, 将大爱传出去！

*This is just an appeal; there is no obligation to make a donation.